Nurturing Relationships Series

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What to expect?

Understand and practice how to cultivate deep authentic relationships.

While relationships are essential to our survival and well-being, modern society does not provide us the skills to form, nurture, and maintain deep, authentic relationships – begining from childhood. “Normal” relationships are conditional, transactional, and fragmented. We mask our true selves behind scripted dialogue and polite talk. But inside we yearn to be seen & heard, accepted & understood.

Here, you will begin an open-ended journey into learning the knowledge & practicing skills that nurture authentic relationships with each other, yourselves, and within members of your circle of influence.

This is done within the framework of a 2-hour workshop followed by 1 – 2 month-long mentorships within a study group. This work necessarily needs to be done within community because we learn and heal within relationships.

You may feel hesitant to consider learning all these skills and/or consider the long-term commitment. So I invite you to simply start with the first workshop and see how it works for you. And while it may be challenging at times, it will be equally rewarding. There is nothing to compare to the gift of authentic relationship

There are three workshops in this series (click links for more details):

1. Deep Listening begins with the practice of listening with the heart instead of the mind.

2. Honest Expression cultivates skills of authentic sharing that enhances respect which in turn fosters trust and loving connection.
(Prerequisite: Deep Listening)

3. Repairing Rupture: happens with respectful correction that includes naming the harm, acknowledging the harm done, and repairing the harm through changed behaviour and sincere apologies.
(Prerequisite: Honest Expression)

Structure

These workshops require 1 – 2 months of group work and peer support provided within a study group.
WORKSHOP : 2-hr Zoom call
MENTORSHIP : Weekly Listening Partnership (LP). These will either be 12 or 24 minutes of listening and sharing practice depending on the workshop.
STUDY GROUP :
Weekly Listening Partnerships (LP) with Peer.  These will either be 12 or 24 minutes of listening and sharing practice with a partner depending on the workshop.
Weekly reflections. Each week will have a theme-related prompt, and you will have an opportunity to share your weekly reflections. I will offer feedback and guidance on your reflections so that we can learn from each other. This group work is hosted on the Mighty Network Platform.
Peer Support. Your peers also provide support via Listening Partnerships and encouragement either on MN or privately.  All members have the responsibility to respond to other’s sharing.  This is how we build circles of support.
WRAP UP CALL : 1 hour Zoom call to see each other face to face and reflect on the journey of nurturing relationships.

Investment

Workshops require a minimum of 4 participants.
Ideally, there would be 1 Solidarity, 2 Full Cost, and 1 Pay-it-Forward. As always, I am open to discussion.

This minimum ensures fair compensation and sufficient members to practice with outside of class to reinforce your learning.

Please do the sliding scale quiz to tally your YES answers to apply to the Investment Chart below.

Sliding Scale Quiz

Workshop fees vary; please check specific workshops. They start at:
Solidarity : 27 BD/ 68 USD (4-5 YES)
Full Cost : 49 BD/ 136 USD (6-7 YES)
Abundance : 86 BD/ 231USD (8+ YES)
Suggested minimum investment.
Please let your investment reflect your abundance so that those at or below solidarity level can access my services.
* If you answered yes to 0 – 3 questions please contact me to explore alternatives
I am also open to discuss investment plans and exchanges.

Feedback

Did this meet your expectations? It went above and beyond my expectations. To be very honest, I had no idea what I was walking into, and I am so thankful to have all of you by my side for this journey and thank you all again for your experiences and patience.

How was beneficial? Learning to hear and feel with out opinions or response. Learning to respond with out advice or judgment and learning to just coexist and be comfortable around people I believed where strangers…. who are actually my brothers and sisters in this world.

Anonymous
Oman
How has this been useful? It has relieved me from the burden of finding a solution or giving advice when talking to others. I can just listen & I feel that is enough. On an individual level, I find myself recording myself (to myself) & just talking about my struggles & and worries and it always makes me feel better.

What did you find challenging? Unfortunately, Being able to find time to attend the workshop activities was a little challenging but honestly, I feel like I should have put more effort because it is worth it and attending an incomplete workshop has been of value to me. An investment in oneself is always of value.

Anonymous
USA

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