Fair Exchange
“Every person, no matter what their wealth, is equally capable of practicing generosity." Thich Nhat Hanh

Here, we discuss sex, death, and now, money. The three no-no, secret topics. The fact is that we all need money to survive and thrive in a capitalist society. And capitalism ensures that wealth is unequally distributed to cultivate the experience of scarcity. (I am not talking about Laws of Attraction because these laws do not work for those who are systemically marginalized.)

The reality is that we live in abundance and Nature’s way is generousity. So in this little corner of the internet, I am inviting the practice of generous giving and shameless receiving.
I want to be generous with my services, education, and community so that all who need it can receive it.
I also need to have a sustainable, reliable income that respects my expertise and experience. In the past, I was privileged enough to offer events and services for free or at reduced rates. However, circumstances have changed, and I need to honor my needs.
So, I am exploring a sliding scale model to serve as a bridge between the capitalist society we exist in and the re-imagined community that I am co-creating with you.
Our re-imagined community prioritizes people and life over product and profit. We are moving from transactional to relational, disconnected to interconnected, individualistic to interdependent.
To keep it simple, my sliding scale model has 3 levels: solidarity, full cost, and pay-it-forward. The pay-it-forward investment level supports the solidarity investment level and allows those with greater financial privilege to have a tangible positive impact for community members who need financial solidarity.

To help assess which level you are at, there are 11 questions for you to answer.
These questions invite you to consider the big picture of your financial privilege compared with others within your community; beyond the numbers to how you live your life and what comforts and security you have.
Please tally the number of ‘Yes’ answers to the questions below to determine your investment level.
I am also open to discuss investment plans and exchanges. I trust your integrity and honesty. If you realize that you have misjudged, you can offer a pay-it-forward session for a community member. Also pay-it-forward sessions payments are always gratefully received by me and the recipient.
SOLIDARITY (Yes to 4-5 questions)
FULL COST (Yes to 6-7 questions)
PAY-IT-FORWARD (Yes to 8+ questions)
* If you answered yes to 0 – 3 questions please contact me to explore alternatives
1. Do you pay other practitioners’ full price?
2. Does your income support yourself alone?
3. Do you use automatic payments for bills & credit cards?
4. Do you or your family own a home or land?
5. Do you have disposable income, savings, investments, and/or inherited money?
6. Were you privately educated and/or have a higher degree?
7. Can you access and afford health care /insurance for yourself and your family?
8. Can you receive financial support from family & friends?
9. Do you have earning power (even if you are not using it) from higher degrees, race, gender, social networks, family connection?
10. Do you travel recreationally?
11. Are you free of disability and /or chronic illness that impacts your earned income?
SLIDING SCALE INVESTMENTS
Private Sessions & Reviews
Private sessions are 1hr; they may be extended if there is availability and with consent. Extra time will be pro-rated.
Reviews are 2h max.
Text/email follow-up is included.
SOLIDARITY: 23 BD; 64 USD
FULL COST: 41 BD; 111 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 59BD; 167 USD
Mentorship
3 months of mentorship include 3-1 hour video calls and text/email support.
SOLIDARITY: 95 BD; 257 USD
FULL COST: 140 BD; 383 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 185 BD; 500 USD
Doula Support
Fees are per hour. Packages can be arranged.
PREGNANCY & POSTPARTUM SUPPORT
SOLIDARITY: 23 BD; 64 USD
FULL COST: 41 BD; 111 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 59 BD; 167 USD
BIRTH, CHALLENGING BIRTH, END-OF-LIFE DOULA SUPPORT
To be discussed with client.
Private Birth Education Classes
Private classes are 1.5 hours long. Your investment also includes homework assignments and in-between class check-ins by WhatsApp or Email.
For Birth Education classes, I already have an extensive database to draw from so I am only charging for the face-to-face time. If it is necessary to do research for your specific issue or condition, I will charge for the time invested. I will discuss this with your prior and obtain your consent before starting the research.
SOLIDARITY: 32 BD; 83 USD
FULL COST: 59 BD; 167 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 91 BD; 247 USD
Small Group Classes
Group Classes require a minimum of 4 participants. Ideally, there would be 1 Solidarity, 2 Full Cost, and 1 Pay-it-Forward. As always, I am open to discussion.
This minimum ensures fair compensation and sufficient members to practice with outside of class to reinforce your learning.
These classes are only available in person, in Bahrain.
SOLIDARITY: 5 BD
FULL COST: 10 BD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 14 BD
Workshop & Study Groups
Workshops require a minimum of 4 participants. Ideally, there would be 1 Solidarity, 2 Full Cost, and 1 Pay-it-Forward. As always, I am open to discussion.
This minimum ensures fair compensation and sufficient members in the month-long study group for skill practice.
For transparency, I will list the investment for each component separately.
Workshops must be taken with the Study Group.
Some workshops have an added Listening Partnership component.
There is also an option to extend the Study Group to consolidate your skills.
WORKSHOP, 2hr, online
SOLIDARITY: 12 BD/ 30USD
FULL COST: 23 BD/ 64 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 41 BD/ 111 USD
STUDY GROUP, 4 weekly reflection prompts, check-ins, and feed back on the Mighty Network platform. 1hr wrap-up call at the end of the month.
SOLIDARITY: 12 BD/ 30USD
FULL COST: 23 BD/ 64 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 41 BD/ 111 USD
LISTENING PARTNERSHIP, 4 weekly 12 or 24 minute calls.
SOLIDARITY: 12 BD/ 30USD
FULL COST: 23 BD/ 64 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 41 BD/ 111 USD
Gatherings
Please check each event for the fees or contributions.
Circles & Pods
Circles and Pods require a minimum of 4 participants. Ideally, there would be 1 Solidarity, 2 Full Cost, and 1 Pay-it-Forward. As always, I am open to discussion. This minimum ensures fair compensation and sufficient members in the group to engage in reflection, discussion, sharing, and feedback.
SOLIDARITY: 5 BD/ 14 USD
FULL COST: 10 BD/ 28 USD
PAY-IT-FORWARD: 14 BD/ 41 USD
This sliding scale is a composite of
https://accountabilitymapping.com/sliding-scale
https://www.awarela.org/donate
https://www.wortsandcunning.com/blog/sliding-scale
https://www.wortsandcunning.com/blog/a-better-sliding-scale
https://www.wortsandcunning.com/blog/beyond-scarcity-marketing-access-not-fear
https://www.ridefreefearlessmoney.com/about/fees/
Image Credits
1. Buddha in the garden by Andrea Jaeckel-Dobschat on Unsplash
2. B&W photo of a woman shushing by Christina Flour on Unsplash
3. An abundant orange tree by Elena Mozhvilo on Unsplah
Related Posts
End Of Life Doula
As an end-of-life doula, I offer supportwhen people are impacted by a life changing illness,after...
Challenging Birth Support
My role at this challenging time is to provide boundaried, compassionate support to the mother...
Postpartum Doula
"... that assists with physical recovery from birth, transition into infant care and the immense...
Mentoring
As a mentor, I am neither a therapist nor a coach. I neither provide “treatment” for mental health...
Body-Mind Session
"When you have a willingness to learn from the messages of your tension, they will speak to you....
Loss Review
“It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners...












